Yes! It’s all of those things.
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When you see other people moving head of you.
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When your friends are getting into relationships and you aren't even close.
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When your friend groups keep getting smaller and smaller because you are being left out.
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When you cant wear certain clothes because you don't look as good as your friends do in them
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When your family tells you..”you would look so much better if you lost more weight, or if you put makeup on and your acne goes away”
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When you just put more effort into your appearance even though you feel like you had already done that.
All of these things end up making you feel so lost and insecure. Which lets face it…that’s the opposite of confidence.
Feeling lost about what to do can seem overwhelming especially when you see others who have it all together. They know what they are doing, while you just feel behind with nowhere to go.
You are just stuck and staying there!
Do you remember what it was like to have that childlike manner that didnt care what anyone thought? That feeling of being naturally confident. Or really unapologetically confident?
The only difference between now and then is that you have been seeking confidence from an external place. When in fact you possess it inside of you. Its just a matter of remembering who you are, and how to show that to the world, whether they like it or not. You like you!


